
So I have a story to tell and it's too late to call any of my favorite blog readers. (You three people know who you are!)
Ahem.
Tonight I ventured into unfamiliar territory. The homeschool co-op that I signed up for in the fall held a year-end celebration/new members social at a member's house. Riley really wanted to go. Mentally, I wanted to encourage her desire to meet other homeschooled friends. I knew I needed to begin to connect with like-minded families. Physically, I was just really tired. And meeting complete strangers is difficult. With five young children. Without Kevin. Who had to work.
The evening was full of highs and lows. Watching Mosely discover that she can jump higher than she ever imagined possible on a trampoline was a good thing. Her face glowed. She was in kid-wonderland. Adorable. Seeing two-week old baby goats again was a treat. I missed our little herd. Witnessing Bergen explode in terror as the mother goat ate the taco off his plate sitting in his lap was less fun. Spending the rest of the meal guarding a blanket full of kids eating food coveted by a huge goat was no picnic either. (tee hee) Later I watched the same stinkin' goat open my bag (yes, open my bag), reach into that bag and grab my wallet in its mouth! This would have been funny if it was happening on America's Funniest Home Videos.
After eating dinner alone I realized I would have to be proactive to meet anyone. (And I know how that is - so it's all good.) I carried my Personal Conversation Starter, also known as my youngest daughter, and joined a group of moms-already-in-progress. Actually, I met a really neat mother of five who loves Charlotte Mason style homeschooling as well. That was fun to chat about that. Oh, it's fun to chat about anything intelligently when I can pull it off.
London forged new ground herself. I overheard her say to a little girl, "Would you like to play with me?" Next thing you know, the girls are best buds. When I told London her playmate was also four she replied, "Yeah, I know. She's my new friend. "
Mosley and Bergen were mesmerized by baby chickens and spent a beautiful half hour or more peering at the chicks on squatted legs. Then they jumped on the trampoline together. The whole evening. They were best friends for a night.
When I was ready to go I couldn't locate Riley among the myriad of teens. I checked the trampoline, the oversized ball soccer game, the batting cage, the goat pen, the s'mores fire pit, the cargo net, the tree fort. Half an hour passed. I was carrying Piper in my arms. She was tired and wiggling to see every animal and every flame. Bergen was clinging with filthy hands to my skirt, smelling of rotten diaper. Mosely was telling me how she loved hot flames to cook marshmallows and how she loved hot marshmallows and she loved all things hot and why, oh why, wouldn't I let her cook her own marshmallow next to all the hot things she so adored. I looked some more. I loaded up four hot and sweaty kids well past their bedtime into an overstuffed Suburban that had not been cleaned out from our endless drive home from Ohio. Ah, the zipline - I forgot to walk the extra steps to the zipline. And that's where Riley was. The zipline. (Yeah, this was a home designed for kids!)
I stepped up to the Suburban, desperate for home, anxious to go to the bathroom after four hours of waiting. (It's next to impossible to use the bathroom when I take the kids out alone. But that's another story.) I want to give into whining like my children so often do. (What's the big benefit of maturity anyway?) I sigh, struggling to look happy for Riley who has clearly enjoyed a stellar evening. Mosely and Bergen are crying for more water in their cups. I hear London explaining to them, "Hey guys, it's no big deal. We can have water soon. Listen, we have ICE CUBES!! All we have to do to get water is ......... WAIT!"
I guess you could say a lot about the evening. But mostly, I guess it looked a little bit like . . . life.